My wife is bored by how often I mast*arbate – please Help.

I have been married for seven years, but I am still troubled by how to speak openly about masturbation with my spouse. I mast*urbate  pretty much every morning after getting up and every evening before I go to bed, unless I think my wife and I will make love.

The problem is that my wife sees my masturbation as a declaration that she does not please me, which is not true. I enjoy our lovemaking, and I'd prefer to make love to her as often as I mast*urbate ; she's simply not interested in doing it that often.

(Believe me, I've tried.) Moreover, she complains that I "take too long" and says she would be more willing if I were "normal" and didn't last so long.

My wife also has suggested there is something wrong with me for wanting to make love or mast*urbate as often as I do.

I accept that I'll never be able to make love to my wife as often as I would like, but how do I convey to her that masturbation is normal and that she shouldn't see it as evidence that she's inadequate?

Can you say I am wrong if I pleasure myself or

Help me please